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Archive for January, 2010

Must Read Dating Articles - Jan 22 Edition

Posted on Friday, January 22nd, 2010

We have all been in that position where you are going to watch a movie but know ahead of time that you may not be remembering much of the movie as your attention is… elsewhere. Here are the 5 best or worst movies to watch on a date.

With Haiti in crisis, here is a must read article before you donate irresponsibly called the world just doesn’t feel right as Haiti hurts.

Our article called the top 10 media darlings of 2009 is a nice break from the general dating articles, and focuses on ten popular people that broke headlines in 2009.

Here is an article for the men reading the blog called the secrets you need to know about Valentines day.

For those dating in their 20’s, you have to read twenty-something love why its the best and worst thing ever. We encourage you to comment on it if you agree or disagree and to state your points.

Last but not least is a flagship article about which questions to ask on a first date, an article that a lot of people are looking for and one that we hit the head on the nail with.

That sums it up for this week, stay tuned for more must reads next week here at Datepad.

This week’s must reads

Posted on Friday, January 15th, 2010

If you’re into “The Bachelor” don’t miss our review of America’s Next Hot Bachelor!

From Bachelor to Cheatah, how did our favorite Tiger get this way?

Want to take things public? Click here for some helpful hints.

Just got dumped?  How to be a Classy Ex-Lover.

2009 sucked for a lot of us.  Kiss 2009 Goodbye!

Thread.com Review

Posted on Monday, January 4th, 2010

In the beta stage since launching in September of 2009, Thread.com is aptly named due to its ability to “thread” together your Facebook friends and their friends. The site has a clean modern look and feel that, along with a catchy logo, is visually appealing.

Traditional dating sites like Datepad grant their users access to their entire database of members. Herein lies the main difference between Thread.com and conventional dating sites.  It doesn’t have its own database. Rather it relies solely on Facebook for its membership If you’re expecting to be able to search for dates around the world, your results will depend entirely on whom your friends are friends with, and more importantly, which of your friends accept your Thread invitation. And there’s the catch; if your Facebook friend(s) do not accept your Thread invitation, their information will not be pulled into Thread. Nor will their friends be displayed. All of which can severely limit both your potential matches and your matchmaking opportunities.

Matchmaking?? Yes my altruistic amigos; Thread.com has a dual purpose. Aside from finding yourself a date from amongst your pool of friends and their friends, the site has a feature that allows you to act as a matchmaker. The belief here is that friends of friends are more authentic and trustworthy because of the “thread” linking you to them(see, clever name!)

Signing up is done through Facebook Connect. That process itself is simple enough. Integration with Facebook can be a tricky beast to tame, and my hat’s off to the developers; it appears to work well. Once you’ve signed into Thread with your FB credentials, it will appear as an application within your FB application list. Which is a bit confusing since it’s not really a FB application, nor will you find it within the FB application search.

Thread’s Shuffle feature is intended to help you meet people or to assist you in your matchmaking endeavors. Once again, the biggest shortcoming of this feature is its dependence on your friends’ acceptance of a Thread invite. Although I don’t have a great deal of friends on FB (less than 50), I know for a fact that at least two of them use this program. Yet on two different days I got a ton shuffle results one day, and none the next. Unreliable results do not speak well of the overall backend design. It’s also limited to 25 views per day. Once you’ve “shuffled” through 25 people, you’re dead in your tracks and have to try again tomorrow. Which I did and as stated I got zero results.

The “Make Matches” feature appears to function more reliably. Select one of your friends and send them up to 20 matches. Your friend will get a FB notification and will have to accept it to view the suggestions you’ve made. In all honesty, if I had two friends that I wanted to introduce to each other, I’d just as soon do it directly than have to load yet another program to do so. Seems simpler to me.

The site’s customer support looks to be well managed. It has a forum style in which users can post questions, suggestions and ideas.  Staff appears to monitor this closely; questions are responded to promptly and suggestions, ideas, praise and criticism are treated with respect and gratitude. There is little doubt in my mind that the staff genuinely cares about their users and their product. Though the current site is currently free of charge, we have heard that they will be transitioning to a “freemium” business model so be prepared to pay in the near future.

Thread has raised $1.2 million in venture funding. After five months the site appears to have a modest amount of traffic which included posts on both Techcrunch and Mashable. This concept has been tried before sans Facebook, notably with Engage.com.  Thread may have a better opportunity with Facebook Connect. If they get through some of the bugs on the site they could be serious competition, provided the public is indeed ready for this type of dating service.